what is love? I don't really know what love means to me. Somehow, everyone knows and feels love before. Be it from urself, your families, your friends & etc..
Why do you choose to love them even though you know they are lacking in many ways??
Why do you say i love you even though you know one day you gonna get hurts by someone you love so much??
Why do still love them even though they hate you or don't love you anymore??
Can love fade easily??
Can love remain and stay forever??
Some people says it is a lie. But for me, it isn't a lie. It's just a beautiful lies. No one in this world born without love. Honestly, you love urself right? If not yourself, then God loves you. Right?
Whatever lacks you do have, God still loves and accepts you for who you are. Even if you hate yourself so much, you just can't denied, few people out there loves you. But the most important thing you should know; you gotta love yourself, before you let others love you!
TIPS to boost up and learn how to love yourself:
- Wake up early in the morning with a smile on your faces :)
- Focus more on what happens TODAY, put aside the future & most important your PAST
- Drink a cup of tea or hot milo and sit on the balcony, watch the sun rises (would it be nice to watch this world wakes up with you too) ^^
- Take your time by doing a nice breakfast for yourself (breakfast is important as it gives you energy to start your day; NEVER skip breakfast)
- Choose any lively or bright hues for to wear, anything fun, bright, simple & comfortable!
- Call your besties to go for girl day out
- Pamper yourself with spa, manicure, shopping, hang out (these are the fave stuff girls do love)
- Smile to strangers, even though your not okay on the inside, but smile at others can or maybe brighten up their day even more.
- Say please and thank you (be thankful)
- Look up on quotes how to boost up your confidante. And paste it near your bed, where it's the first thing you read when you wake up. Example, ''i am pretty'' or ''i love myself'' this can make yourself become even more confident with yourself.
- Do a journal or blog of yourself (one of ways to express yourself; learn about yourself)
- Be open, don't be a narrow-minded person.
- Listen to music ( Example, who says by Selena gomez)
- Sleep early, take good care of yourself, mental and physically
- Don't be afraid your own body, learn about your own body, (love my curves)
- Take up gym class, dancing class, martial arts or yoga class. (to occupied your times if your not busy, if you're busy, you can take up on weekends)
- Ignore your enemies, they completely wasting their times thinking about you
- Be yourself and listen to your heart
- Let go of your alter ego
- Let go of past, everybody makes mistakes, learn from your mistakes
- Appreciate those who sticks with you during laughter and hard times
- Treasure all the memories you've had with someone you love even though some of it might be painful for you to flashback again. This is called life.
- Nobody's perfect!
Don't hate or blame yourself just because you're feeling guilty of whatever it is. For life meant to be like a roller coaster! Do have ups and downs.
It's not an easy steps to love yourself, takes time too. Even for a sec. Smile! :)
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